The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Can we limit it to touching and oral only?

sepacouple · 01-14-2006, 06:20 PM

You should not be doing something you are not completely comfortable with and you and your husband should make sure this is what you BOTH want.

That being said there is is not really a right or wrong on what a couple wants to do with another couple (or single) as long as everybody is acceptable to it (and remember no means no).

What you describe as what you might be comfortable starting with is usually refered to as one variation of "soft-swinging" and there are many couples (ourselves included) that consider that thier limit and are very happy with never moving on to a "full-swap" instead reserving intercourse for only thier spouse or SO.

Good luck in whatever you decide and make this is what you want before jumping in and feel free to post any other questions you might have, you will find that we are a friendly bunch here.

01-14-2006, 06:20 PM	#3 (permalink)
sepacouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 108 Location: southeastern PA Status: couple	Re: Question for my first time You should not be doing something you are not completely comfortable with and you and your husband should make sure this is what you BOTH want. That being said there is is not really a right or wrong on what a couple wants to do with another couple (or single) as long as everybody is acceptable to it (and remember no means no). What you describe as what you might be comfortable starting with is usually refered to as one variation of "soft-swinging" and there are many couples (ourselves included) that consider that thier limit and are very happy with never moving on to a "full-swap" instead reserving intercourse for only thier spouse or SO. Good luck in whatever you decide and make this is what you want before jumping in and feel free to post any other questions you might have, you will find that we are a friendly bunch here.