Can we limit it to touching and oral only? I still have some mixed emotions about doing this as to what I am comfortable with. I have a question here that might help me if you can answer it... Can a couple be with another couple only with the oral/touching boundaries and only be with thier mate? Honestly I think ( at first) this would be the only way I felt okay as what I allow my hubby oral and touched to get and vice versa. I hope I don't sound strange. I don't mind hubby getting oral if I know he's only gonna be in me. I haven't been with anyone but him and we've been married 12 years. I don't want to "share" him, but adding the other parts to enhance I can be alright with. ( actually I get turned on by this thought ) Anyone else do this or feel this way???? Or am I not ready for this at all??? Please be honest with your answers....I don't want to make a mistake. |