 Re: newbie questions...
I'm sure that I at least want to try it out, maybe just having sex with my partner when others are around, without swapping the first time we go to a club. At least that would be my initial idea, maybe I change my mind and want more - but I know he wouldn't mind
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you should take tiny steps at first... going and having sex with each other is great .
also, you can be flirty, and play "some" with people.
set your boundaries.
maybe start with just some touching ...
then go further next time
It's just that I am wondering a bit about expectations other people have...he ensured me that it is very relaxed, and nobody will force anybody - and i know he would never do anything I wouldn't enjoy as well. It's just...is it really ok if you go to one of these clubs and not participate to start with?
Oh yea, ive found clubs to be very nice .. usualy no one is pushy, everyone is nice and all that.
people respect your boundaries pretty well as long as you voice them
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