A pulse is mandatory.
Age, weight and looks fall equally below the pulse meter.
Primarily, a couple that is at least comfortable with the lifestyle is important.
I have met first time swingers that you "just know" are meant to be there, and many that have been swinging for a number of years that you just know shouldn't be there.
Physical chemistry is a must for us. Ken's and Barbie's usually end up together, not the type that necessarily look like that; but the type that carry themselves like they are unapproachable.
Most party's have several like that and they seem to have fun hanging with each other, and more power to them.
Also, a lot of seemingly "normal", or overweight, unnatractive couples seem to find each other too.
Everyone has their own redeeming values. I have had sex with people that I would never have had dreamed of having sex with, just because I'm in the lifestyle,( I mean I would call them super models), and also some that I would never have dated if single.
But a pulse is mandatory. John. |