[2inVT]

Not a good idea to go with the bi-girl-play just to get the hubby into swinging. If you WANT to play bi, that's a different story. If you're just looking at it as a way to get him to accept swinging - if you like it too much, he'll feel threatened; if you don't like it, you'll feel angry about it. Lose/lose.

And let's look at reality for a minute. There's a reason single bi-fems are referred to as unicorns. We've been swinging for 6 years, have yet to hook up with the fabled single bi-fem. I don't believe we've ever even seen one from a distance. (Not that we've been searching for one; but we'd play if we connected with one.) Perhaps you'll be the exception, and you'll find that perfect single bi-fem right away - I'd doubt it, but you never know.