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2inVT · 01-10-2006, 09:10 AM

I agree with VegasLee that there is no right answer here.

I think that if you define yourself as a swinger, then you are a swinger. Whether you're married or single. Since I'm not the arbiter of all things swinging, I don't feel I have the right to tell anyone that they are not a swinger because their situation is different than mine.

It's an attitude, I think. There's a big difference in attitude between the singles we've met in the swinging community, and the singles out to just get laid. I mean, let's face it, if you're a swinger, you pretty much want to get laid. But there's an honesty involved with swinging.

To me, swapping is a category of swinging. Not the same definition. Swappers are swingers, but all swingers are not swappers. We're more into sharing than swapping, really.

01-10-2006, 09:10 AM	#64 (permalink)
2inVT Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 136 Location: Vermont Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:2inVT	Re: Your Personal Definition I agree with VegasLee that there is no right answer here. I think that if you define yourself as a swinger, then you are a swinger. Whether you're married or single. Since I'm not the arbiter of all things swinging, I don't feel I have the right to tell anyone that they are not a swinger because their situation is different than mine. It's an attitude, I think. There's a big difference in attitude between the singles we've met in the swinging community, and the singles out to just get laid. I mean, let's face it, if you're a swinger, you pretty much want to get laid. But there's an honesty involved with swinging. To me, swapping is a category of swinging. Not the same definition. Swappers are swingers, but all swingers are not swappers. We're more into sharing than swapping, really.