The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Would like to hook up with the older woman across the street

Uomo · 01-09-2006, 09:26 PM

You're 21 ... and she's 40?

That's all well and good with me ... but let me tell you something ....

She is light years ahead of you in life experience and maturity. Don't try to be slick or clever ... it won't work. Whatever you do will be as transparent as celephane. Make the wrong move and you can plan on an unwelcomed visit from her husband. You are treading in very dangerous waters.

(Outside of the swinging set) Women aren't attracted to men for the same reasons men are attracted to women. You're fishing in the real world. If a married woman is out on the scene, it's not for a one night stand ... she's looking for a husband. Unless there is something extra super wonderful about you (and I'm not talking looks here), I doubt she will look at you as anything more than a horny kid. I hate to be this blunt ... but seriously: at 21 (in the eyes of someone who is 40), you are little more than a grown child. Were I you, I wouldn't attempt it. It just isn't worth it.

01-09-2006, 09:26 PM	#9 (permalink)
Uomo Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 127 Location: Area 51 Status: M. Male	Re: sticky situation You're 21 ... and she's 40? That's all well and good with me ... but let me tell you something .... She is light years ahead of you in life experience and maturity. Don't try to be slick or clever ... it won't work. Whatever you do will be as transparent as celephane. Make the wrong move and you can plan on an unwelcomed visit from her husband. You are treading in very dangerous waters. (Outside of the swinging set) Women aren't attracted to men for the same reasons men are attracted to women. You're fishing in the real world. If a married woman is out on the scene, it's not for a one night stand ... she's looking for a husband. Unless there is something extra super wonderful about you (and I'm not talking looks here), I doubt she will look at you as anything more than a horny kid. I hate to be this blunt ... but seriously: at 21 (in the eyes of someone who is 40), you are little more than a grown child. Were I you, I wouldn't attempt it. It just isn't worth it. Last edited by Uomo : 01-09-2006 at 09:31 PM.