We do tend to come down pretty hard on anything to do with cheating. I suppose it would do us all some good to remember that we shouldn't be so quick to be offended by inquiries like akaab39's. It's a misunderstanding. And when someone is unfamiliar with the lifestyle, they often come into it with preconceived notions about promiscuous and permissive behaviour...and are usually caught off-guard when they find out otherwise. I think many people are just unaware that there is a healthier, more ethical alternative to adultery.
This post is a little out-of-character for me. I'm usually one of the first ones to jump down someone's throat about cheating.
