akaab39,
I'm afraid you came to the wrong place to ask for advice on how to get a woman to cheat on her husband. Swingers are not cheaters. Cheaters lie and sneak around behind their spouses back and in the end someone gets hurt.
Swinging is something that as a couple we do together. We decided together to share our sex lives with others and we play with other couples that we meet and connect with. We always play in the same room so we can watch each other. There are no secrets, no sneaking around to meet someone behind the others back. There is open and honest communication and trust.
I suggest you leave the neighbor alone with her life, her husband and her children and find someone who is single like yourself. I think choosing to cheat on your spouse can be bad enough by itself but someone who wants to plot a way to get a person to cheat on their spouse......
pretty damn low.
No, you'll get no advice here on how to do this. Wrong place and wrong impression of swingers!!
Mrs Spoomonkey