 He Wants FMF, She Wants MFM - Compromise?
I'm extremely new at swinging; we haven't had any experiences yet and are trying to learn where to start. I finally had the "big" conversation with my husband about my interest in swinging, and to my surprise it went well. I knew that to warm my husband up to the idea, I should offer the idea of a fmf threesome first. He said great, but he'd only watch, no participation on his part. But when I tried to approach the subject of mfm or full swap, it was a definite no go. I still don't understand why some men have this double standard - they'll watch their wife with another woman but will refuse to let another man touch her. And that's what happens to turn me on! I'm willing to take things slowly as we learn about the lifestyle but how many times should I do girl/girl before I push harder for some couple action or mfm? How can I convince him that I want HIM forever and fun is just that - fun?
Still Trying to Learn the Ropes
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