The Swingers Board - View Single Post - I tried- I tried- I can't do this anymore

intuition897 · 01-06-2006, 05:03 PM

Well...actions bring consequences. He chooses to make poor decisions, he reaps some shitty consequences. Simple math.

I never like to advise couples to quit a relationship, but there are times when, if you look at the situation objectively, there is no other alternative. When someone is leaving you no other alternative but to eat "spoonful after spoonful" of bullshit, for the sake of your health, you need to move on. In the long run, it does the other person more good than putting up with their self-centred behaviour. This is real life, and it's childish to think that things are always supposed to go his way.

I'm sorry you're going through this Mrs. pacpl. "Venting" is a good thing to do, and this is a perfect place to do it. So please let us know if there's anything we can help out with.

01-06-2006, 05:03 PM	#10 (permalink)
intuition897 Canadian, eh? Join Date: Sep 2004 Posts: 2,633 Location: Kingston, ON Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:intuition897	Re: I tried- I tried- I can't do this anymore Well...actions bring consequences. He chooses to make poor decisions, he reaps some shitty consequences. Simple math. I never like to advise couples to quit a relationship, but there are times when, if you look at the situation objectively, there is no other alternative. When someone is leaving you no other alternative but to eat "spoonful after spoonful" of bullshit, for the sake of your health, you need to move on. In the long run, it does the other person more good than putting up with their self-centred behaviour. This is real life, and it's childish to think that things are always supposed to go his way. I'm sorry you're going through this Mrs. pacpl. "Venting" is a good thing to do, and this is a perfect place to do it. So please let us know if there's anything we can help out with.
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