Backbone? Yep, you could definitily say I've grown one,
I'm done bending over back-wards to give him what
he wants.. I'm done eating spoonful after spoonful of his shit.
And you betcha, he doesn't want to look at this site, he absolutly can not stand anyone else having a different (or correct) opinion then him! One of the reasons I gave swinging a try to begin with was because of him
debating why he wanted it. And why I should do it. Regardless to what I wanted or didn't want.
He knows if he came here and posted; "I want to swing, but my wife doesn't" That he will be told NOT to swing.. Which is NOT what he wants to hear.
He panicked over me msging that woman was cause he was probably worried what I would find out, which was not much cause she would really talk to me. She was giving the whole stupid act. Even when I told her I had half their chat infront of me!
As far as him going out alone to swing, I personally don't think he has the balls or the confidence to do it. He always brags that he never cheated on his first wife and had alot more reason too. He only got as far as he got because he did a wonderful job making me feel guilty.. Not to say that he wont go it alone (if he gets daring), but if he does go down that path, he knows to not come back. Cause if he does, I'll put his c**k through a meat grinder! (j/k ok maybe not)