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ranchofuncouple · 01-06-2006, 02:18 PM

I have to throw my support behind the Ken and Barbie supporters too! While I wouldn't say we're anything but above average, it's because I'm biased, I've like myself since I've met me, and my better half since I fisrt heard her voice on the phone some 16 years ago!!!

We've played with people who physically were 'way above our paygrade' in both fitness and looks, but the fun times we've had the most have been with people we connect with, regardless of looks. One of our playmates was actually asked by someone at a dance 'what on earth are you doing with 'THOSE TWO' and she replied 'something I'll never do with you two: having fun!'

We look for open minded, non-judgemental people, period. A physical attraction helps get introduced, both ways, right? But we can honestly say we've met our share of beauties who were in bodies that most wouldn't look at, and beasts in bodies most would crave...

It's connection, not looks... we don't fuck, we don't make love, we prefer to 'make like' with friends!

01-06-2006, 02:18 PM	#7 (permalink)
ranchofuncouple Registered User Join Date: Dec 2004 Posts: 1 Location: Rancho Cordova, CA Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:ranchofuncouple	Re: Sex without a connection- a learning experience I have to throw my support behind the Ken and Barbie supporters too! While I wouldn't say we're anything but above average, it's because I'm biased, I've like myself since I've met me, and my better half since I fisrt heard her voice on the phone some 16 years ago!!! We've played with people who physically were 'way above our paygrade' in both fitness and looks, but the fun times we've had the most have been with people we connect with, regardless of looks. One of our playmates was actually asked by someone at a dance 'what on earth are you doing with 'THOSE TWO' and she replied 'something I'll never do with you two: having fun!' We look for open minded, non-judgemental people, period. A physical attraction helps get introduced, both ways, right? But we can honestly say we've met our share of beauties who were in bodies that most wouldn't look at, and beasts in bodies most would crave... It's connection, not looks... we don't fuck, we don't make love, we prefer to 'make like' with friends!