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Originally Posted by Mrs Spoomonkey In defense of the "Ken and Barbies".
My point is there are so many factors that make someone attractive, from personality, to body type to the color of their eyes or hair. Not all the Ken and Barbies have bad personalities any more than all "average or better" have great ones. We start with what gets us interested in a couple first and then go from there. If if clicks we usually ALL know it.
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My sentiments exactly Mrs. Spoomonkey.
There are so many people that seem like genuinely nice couples but there is zero attraction for N (I'm easy so if she is attracted the guy, I will probably be attracted to the girl). N is typically black/brown hair exclusive when it comes to initial attraction. There are exceptions, but 9 out of 10 times he will need to have dark hair to catch her eye. Then there are other women who are primarily attracted to blondes.
Then there’s personality- some like soft spoken, some like commanding, some like funny, some like deep and serious. Seems like the bottom line is that there are tons of great couples but not alot of great matches.
Attraction is such a subjective and personal concept.
The hardest part is figuring out which couples to spend time with…do you get to know the really cool couple that you physically do not find attractive and maybe find out the mental connection drives attraction…or do you hold out for the perfect fit? I guess to each there own
