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Originally Posted by lcjtsd the Ken & Barbies we have met at clubs judge just by looks. Do they make even the slightest effort to get to know us? No. |
What we have found is that the Ken & Barbies at our clubs are either:
- Only interested in looking at themselves in the mirror
- just as scared of you as you are of them
We are not a bad looking couple - and we have been surprised at how many people at our club think we aren't interested in them without even saying a word to us.
For the longest time, we didn't talk to them because we were new, insecure, nervous and figured they wouldn't want to talk to us...
Then we got brave...
And guess what!
We found out that a lot of people sort of wrote us off as a "K&B" type couple - assuming we were stuck up because we were afraid to talk to them. I think you'd be surprised - a lot of those "stuck up" couples really have no idea what to say to you...
Granted - there are plenty of couples who really are sort of full of themselves, but you should never assume. We've learned that some of the best experiences happen because we "dared" to talk to that couple we thought was way over our head...
In fact, one of those couples - that we thought would run sreaming away actually told us that they were afraid to approach us because they didn't think we'd like them...
You can't expect people to be forward with you just because they're attractive. Believe it or not, some of those folks are sitting there, looking at you, afraid to make that first move - just waiting for someone to be nice first...
Spoomonkey