[Dynamar]

Just like lots of dolt-ish single males ruin things for the "good" single males, hot but evil Kens & Barbies ruin it for the hot and nice Kens & Barbies.

I say right in my profile that Ken and Barbie are certainly welcome... I liked them (and played with them) a lot when I was a youngster! But they'll need to be deeper than the kiddie pool and open to getting to know lots of different kinds of people.

Some Kens and Barbies are just like any other folks... down to earth, there for a good time, look at the "whole package", etc. But fact of the matter is... lots of Ks&Bs are just down for meeting other Ks&Bs... to them "their type" is the only sexy thing out there.

Too bad for them, I say. Sexy comes in all kinds of wrappers.

The flip side of the coin, of course, is that non-Ks&Bs (Fred, Wilma, Dan, Roseanne and the rest of us) sometimes have an inferiority complex about themselves and won't risk rejection by coming on to K&B first. Then you have the "hot girl stays at home with no dates, because everyone is afraid to ask her out" syndrome.