I wonder how much of the irritation over the 'shallow' people comes from the fact that they are looking for HWP partners and how much of the irritation comes from the fact that they say so right up front in their profile. We don't say anything like that in our online profiles because we just don't say anything negative at all in those. Our online profiles are about what we're looking for as opposed to what we're not looking for. We don't pursue anything with people that we aren't attracted to, but there's no point in throwing out blanket insults right up front.
As far as inner beauty though, I'm looking for inner beauty when I'm looking for a love mate. When I'm looking for a partner for an explicitly sexual relationship where the whole idea is that I don't develop too many emotions, then I don't see why inner beauty is really a relevant concept.
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