I understand what TeamSoBe is saying, but I disagree that we larger folk use the shallow label to deflect anything.
If you are not attracted to fat girls, then hey, that is your preference. However, you might be surprised just how much that little hottie down the street actually weighs.
When you base something on just a number, THAT is shallow.
Aside from that, yes I am fat - I use BBW because most people are uncomfortable with the word fat. I have no problem with it and I am comfortable with myself. You'll notice that I have never said, "yes, I am fat but I have been losing weight."
And I find that if most people take a little bit of time to hang out with me they find me darn near irresistable.
Now, if I were to be really shallow my ad would read something like "no one need apply who cannot spell or uses 'u' instead of you and 'ur' instead of your/you're."
How's that for shallow?
But, as I said, we don't judge on appearance, or on lack of spelling ability. We like to get to know you, and make an effort to see what is truly beautiful inside a person.
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