The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Am I alone in thinking that "friends first" doesn't make sense?

deadparrot911 · 01-04-2006, 03:23 PM

I think you may be right Intuition. See i dont call many friend and i guess the idea that almost everyone here says friends first kinda freaks me out...by my definition of friend thats i line i wont cross and refuse to let anyone i talk to along these lines think i will. I feel if u are gonna swing honesty is essential both with your husband/partner and with any potential playmates. Once i call or look at someone as friend that is what they are untill exreme circumstances rip that apart...not for a day a week or even a month.

It seems we only differ on how casual we are willing to be.

01-04-2006, 03:23 PM	#9 (permalink)
deadparrot911 Active Member Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 19 Location: henderson	Re: Am I alone in this? I think you may be right Intuition. See i dont call many friend and i guess the idea that almost everyone here says friends first kinda freaks me out...by my definition of friend thats i line i wont cross and refuse to let anyone i talk to along these lines think i will. I feel if u are gonna swing honesty is essential both with your husband/partner and with any potential playmates. Once i call or look at someone as friend that is what they are untill exreme circumstances rip that apart...not for a day a week or even a month. It seems we only differ on how casual we are willing to be.