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Originally Posted by deadparrot911 Sometimes feeling used is fun...but I'm twisted and not ashamed to admit it. |
I suppose. Not my cup of tea, but everyon has their own thing...
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Originally Posted by deadparrot911 To me tho either will probably never been a good friend because if you are not my husband and i will be playing with you there is a distance that must be kept so that attachments are not formed. i don't know if that makes me classless...honest...or somewhere in-between lol |
I guess maybe that's it. It depends on your comfort level. We're not lovey-dovey with our playmates; we have our own emotional barriers set up as well, and there are no doe-eyed looks, loving caresses or 'I love you's. Just like physical personal space, everyone has their emotional personal space. That crosses it for us. But while we don't want to know every detail of your personal life, nor do we want to get involved in it, we have no problem treating our playmates with the same level of consideration that we extend to our long-term friends. It's just that by mutual agreement, this friendship has an expiry date. As in, possibly the next day.
I get the funny feeling we're arguing the same point, deadparrot911.
