 Re: Am I alone in this?
But I think most would agree that personality plays a part in attraction.
I completely agree...
We don't like to feel like we've been used.
Sometimes feeling used is fun...but I'm twisted and not ashamed to admit it. However I am brutally honest and would never lead anyone that i was "using" to believe it was anything else. Doesn't mean we cant talk or have dinner...or even enjoy non sexual time.
To me a friend is someone i know inside and out....someone i tell anything to. So while i'm not opposed to "nice shoes wanna fuck" I'm also not opposed to hey u are a really nice person lets have dinner and see where it goes. To me tho either will probably never been a good friend because if you are not my husband and i will be playing with you there is a distance that must be kept so that attachments are not formed. i don't know if that makes me classless...honest...or somewhere in-between lol |