 Re: What Were Your First Rules?
Wow, even after reading some of your ever-changing rules, I have already learned a lot more. Good thing I read some of these; I wouldn't have even considered some of the finer points... I've approached my partner already about possibly learning together about swinging, and finding out what each of us might like/dislike, but I realize it has to be a slow and gentle process. He has never been accepting of the idea but lately has come around. I think this would be a good topic to bring up when speaking about hypothetical situations with him - we could make up a set of our own rules to see how the other one would regulate an experience. He doesn't want to look on this board yet, so maybe that's a start.
Taking it Slow for Him
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