 Re: What Were Your First Rules?
Rules are something that need to be developed between you and your partner. As far as how to set them, think about what things you wouldn't be comfortable with, those are the things you should set rules against, she should do the same.
Unfortunately, when my ex and I first started swinging, we didn't set rules, we never thought to. We ended up setting them as we went along and discovered things that we didn't care for or weren't comfortable with. |