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All I can say about our original rules was that we had to many. Each couple is different and will have to formulate a set of rules that work for them. My only suggestion is that it is easy to make so many or so stringent rules that it makes it no fun. I think the rule that most saved us from all of our rules we had when we started was that "all rules are negotiable and none of them are set in stone". This allowed us to change the rules as we went along. We were surprised that a lot of our original rules that seemed so reasonable when we made them were just unworkable in practice. Now we have very few rules but it works for us.

Our current rules are;

We don't play alone, if one of us plays we both play.

Either of us can veto potential play partners.

Have fun, if either of us isn't enjoying the experiance for any reason we call it a night.

And thats about it we have some other individual rules but they involve types of things we are not into like bi play or anal play, those types of things we just aren't into so I don't really consider them part of our rules.