 What Were Your First Rules?
I'm trying to learn as much as I can about swinging before I make any kind of decision. I'd rather be informed. I've heard several people mention that when they and their partners first had a swing experience, they went into it with some rules, whether unspoken or written down. I was wondering what some of your "starting out" rules were. I would like to discuss swinging with my partner, but I think rules is a good thing to start with. What kind of rules did you begin with? Whether your first experience was yesterday or 20 years ago, whether it was full swap or looking only, what kind of rules helped you get through it comfortably? What happened if a rule was broken?
Starting Out Sensibly
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