I (the male half of this couple) have faked it when I'm wearing a condom. That's becuause condoms (any type) take away the sensation that I need to pop unless my partner is extremely tight. It's been said by others here that men are under tremendous pressure to perform. I have to agree with that. Not all women are sensitive enough to "to let the guy off the hook" so to speak and really want a guy to cum during sex. I'm not saying that to get under anybody's skin, but to illustrate how some guys perceive things.
If we could let things happen and not worry about the "big o," then I think this topic would be a non issue. |