Hmm. I think Mr. has more experience as the dominant personality, and he's much more comfortable in a position of authority, but I think with some development, I could definitely be a Domme. I rarely exercise it (probably because I'm not quite ready to explore it), but I really do enjoy shocking and discomfiting people. Knocking them somewhat off balance. Ever so subtly. I just love the reaction. I've noticed a bit of the Cougar in me emerging as I work around endearingly naiive university students all the time (no offense folks!). I like dressing sexy for the office and tormenting my poor office-mate. Nothing outrageous mind you, as I have no intention of appearing inappropriate. This is just the way I dress (halo appears over my head). Can I help it if their minds wander?
Another indication, I suppose, is this wonderful reaction I have to bad-ass 'alpha males' strutting and posturing. I feel positively predatory, like a cat toying with a mouse. And all I can think is, "SOMEbody needs his ass spanked!" <EG>
EDIT>> Here's an interesting link for any women toying with the idea of exploring domination:
http://www.akashaweb.com/forwomen.html