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Originally Posted by Thrax If there is dancing, consider dancing... If you are getting along with some single women or couples at the bar, you might want to ask one of those women to dance. If you see a gaggle of women in an area -- especially near the dance floor -- watching the goings-on, try to get up the nerve to introduce yourself there and ask if anyone wants to dance. |
Overall, some very good advice, but I'd be kinda careful here. I think the best, and safest, single-guy/swingers protocol is to first ask the
husband if he would mind your asking his wife for the dance. If she's in a group of women near the dance floor, the same rule still applies. Ask
him if you can ask
her...then make your approach.
Everything else you've said is absolutely on-point. If you "walk-the-walk" as well as you "talk-the-talk" I have no doubt that you've found some success as a single guy in swing clubs.