[Spoomonkey]

I think Thrax's advice is excellent. Perhaps we have an emerging master in our midst...

One thing that definitely seems to work for us is: talk to the husband. Or, better yet, talk to many husbands. Not because he is a gate keeper or because he is going to green light you to naked congress with his wife, but because he's a guy - like you...

So, shoot the shit with him. No expectations, no insinuations, just casual conversation. At worst, he'll brush you off - more likely he'll chat with you and you gain a friendly face in a strange, intimidating place. At best... Well, you just never know...

Spoomonkey