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**TNT** · 12-29-2005, 05:32 PM

Since this is your first visit to a club, make sure you check with the host/hostess to see what the rules are for single men. Some clubs only allow single men to stay at the bar area, until invited to a table by a couple. Some clubs allow the single men to roam freely.

The main thing to remember is be a gentleman. Basically, you're going to be doing the waiting game. Some couples won't mind you approaching them, others will.

There is nothing wrong with saying hello to someone but, don't make yourself a nuisance to anyone.

Also, go with no expectations...just because your at a swinger's club does not mean you will get an invite or that you're entitled to anything.

Sit back, relax and observe...you can learn a lot by just watching.

Teresa

12-29-2005, 05:32 PM	#5 (permalink)
TNT Julie's Helper Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 4,305 Location: baker, fl, usa Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:tblonde312 Blog Entries: 33	Re: Question from Newbie Since this is your first visit to a club, make sure you check with the host/hostess to see what the rules are for single men. Some clubs only allow single men to stay at the bar area, until invited to a table by a couple. Some clubs allow the single men to roam freely. The main thing to remember is be a gentleman. Basically, you're going to be doing the waiting game. Some couples won't mind you approaching them, others will. There is nothing wrong with saying hello to someone but, don't make yourself a nuisance to anyone. Also, go with no expectations...just because your at a swinger's club does not mean you will get an invite or that you're entitled to anything. Sit back, relax and observe...you can learn a lot by just watching. Teresa __________________ Ted and Teresa No lifetime is enough unless you live it in such a way as to make it enough.