 Re: How are woman programmed?
I was similar in this situation...When my hubby suggested this, I was not too sure...all it took was a talking about it with others we knew in the lifestyle and confidence in myself. It wasn't the lack of confidence I had in my husband, I know he loves me deeply, it was the confidence I had in myself...my insecurities and concerns. Once I worked through them...there really is no stopping us (except for lack of babysitters!). I can't pass a hottie--male or female--that I don't make a comment or suggestion.
Our first experience at a local Social was eyeopening and exillerating for Rob to say the least! He had NEVER seen me act and do the things I did that night! Nevertheless...he enjoys seeing me when we go out more than ever! I dress sexier for him...give him oral on the way to events...make sure he has all the attention he wants BEFORE we go into a place. It is our special time together before we go and play with others.
Maybe your wife's confidence in herself needed to be checked. Once she has found it...there may be some great times for the 2 of you ahead!
Good Luck!
Kisses
guddygirl |