[intuition897]

Too few rules? I dunno...used to be a time we only had to live by ten Laws (the Ten Commanments) but in our human 'wisdom' we have elaborated on them to the point of having enormous libraries full of volumes of law books. I say keep it simple. Our first full swap sounded just like yours. It was like a breath of fresh air after trying to lock things down with 1001 rules. We basicly went with the Golden Rule: Just Don't Hurt Each Other, and we trusted each other to follow that rule to the letter. It simply meant being courteous and sensitive to one another's feelings. If my swing partner suggests something new while Mr. is out of the room, out of respect for him, I would say, "It sounds like fun, but I want to make sure it's ok with [Mr. intuition] first." I say as long as you keep that rule foremost in your minds, and as long as you believe that your partner will never intentionally hurt you, I think there's very little that you can't do.