As far as it goes,since she is in Germany & I am hereI see no point to involve lawyers.When a decision is reached then most likely I will instigate it from here.Having once been through a foreign divorce,I have no burning desire to wait another 2 yrs. before the issue is resolved.However,since the situation has not been finalised I reiterate that being upfront cuts to the heart of the matter & people can react to it as they see fit.I don't want to induce "guilt " in anyone. |