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Old 12-26-2005, 05:02 AM   #15 (permalink)
curiousagain
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curiousagain gives some great advice
Default Re: Observations and questions of a NEWBIE to all of this...

Welcome to the board, Orion. You've received a lot of good advice so far and there's not a lot to add to it other than just treat people as you want to be treated. Don't have a lot of expectations up front and realize that just as couples swing in addition to their marriage, a single person should see swinging as something they do in addition to dating and not in place of it.

Most couples don't swing with single guys, don't take that personally, that's just not something they are in to. But, a single guy that has manners, social skills, looks nice, smells nice, and acts nice will always find some success in the swing lifestyle.


One of the best parts of swinging is hanging out with people who have the same mindset, so just hang out, look and search around and don't be afraid to ask questions.

BTW, thanks Mrs. Spoomonkey.
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