This is a quote from CURios24:
I don't go to clubs around here because they usually don't allow single guys and they are just too expensive to get in whenever they do allow single men. When online at personal sites I've seen a lot of listings for socials for swingers to attend to get to know one another etc. Every single one I have sent a message to the organizers to see if single males where welcome. Every single one has been no it's only for couples and single women. *shrug* Not much I can do about that. I do agree with you that meeting face-to-face would be the best thing but when no one wants to meet you it's kind of hard.
But I have given up on traditional dating. You know seeing someone asking them out on an offical date etc. I'm taking the route now of just hanging out and if something happens great! If not there's really not much I can do about it. I think I'm at the point of I don't really care anymore because the dates that I have been on have just been hell so forget that. New approach.
Although your story is the best thing ever! haha.
Wow! you left yourself a lot of options
Club to expensive, given up on traditional dating Surrender
. Have you checked on your ad. see how it's worded........pics. on it? To me your not even trying, or people not intrested in you. Just a simple chat online is not the only way on how to meet someone.