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Originally Posted by fun4Ds we feel there is plenty of options for singles on the single personal ad sites. cant you post an add there and just put what you have told us here there? we have single friends that tell us about remarkable results just by being honest and looking for open no strings attached sexual experiances.you may find a new partner that could take this journey with you.then you would get the experiance of a partner in this lifestyle where you respect each others boundries.single or married, people have boundries. |
Honestly, no. I never thought of looking for a partner on a singles site with the idea of asking them to swing with me. To be honest with you, I don't know if that is someting I'd be interested in at this time anyway because I am not looking for a steady relationship with anyone at this time or anyone to share this experience with me. I'm really just wanting to meet people and have a good time and make the very best of casual encounters. I suppose the lifestyle of swingers represents a fantasy I've alsways had and the fulfilling of it never involved me being with a partner or "roll buddy".
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Originally Posted by fun4Ds #2 is it possible to be part of the community? well yes it is possible. but your the one to pass the test. as mrs.fun was just telling me of having your character and personality tested. i hope you find your place as a single in this lifestyle im sure it aint gonna be easy. |
Nothing ventured, nothing gained. I am certainly up for the challenge. From the comments others have made, I get the feeling I will be okay. It's all new to me and so I will admit it's a little scary. But it's also very exciting at the same time.
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Originally Posted by fun4Ds have you read any post from JnCC or eternally single. now there are a couple of guys that might stand a chance with us because they are really honest and genuine by our standards. im a bit of a skeptical person so i hope your being honest and not just trying to get info for an easy way in to couples lives. there are alot of people here who arnt easily fooled . hope to hear more from you. good luck in your journey. |
Nope, I have not read any of thier posts or any single gent posts since I've been on tis forum. Since you proided the names I will certainly look up some of their posts, but I appreciate what some have said here about being honest. I sort of feel glad that I couldn't find any single peoples posts initially because I may have fashioned some of my comments on theirs in an effort to be accepted in this community.
As far as you being skeptical, well, I can certainly appreciate that. I suppose it would be easy for me to say that you've got nothing to worry about with me... but those are only words... over the internet, no less! What I can say is that I really like this community and love the concept of it - and I would like to be a long time member of it. Obvioiusly that means buiding a reputation. I certainly have nothing to hide. I've been nothing but honest to this point and will continue to be such, as I feel that's the only way to be ESPECIALLY when trying to build on something very important to you.
Thank you for wanting to hear more from me. I believe you will!
