Well you've pretty much gotten some of the best information and advice on getting along in the lifestyle, whether it's on this board, at a club or when meeting couples. Be respectful, descrete and not all about "your equipment or ablilities" as Spoo mentioned.
Since you've been reading things on the board already you had to have run across posts by some of the single males here that are regulars. From that you should be able to tell which ones are doing things right and hence have much respect around the board.
Singles are great when they come to the table with honesty and a knowledge that I am not in the lifestyle with my husband because I am looking for something bigger and better. We are in it together to watch each other have fun and to fulfill fantasies. We have a single male friend who now for us has set the bar high for any others that come our way. We also had the single guy that lowered it and gave us all the red flags to look for.
Most couples aren't looking for the guy who claims to have a ?" dick, or can give the wife the best orgasm she's ever had. Now doesn't that come across as arrogant
:rollseyes We want someone who we can both talk to, have fun with, not treat our husband like he is worthless or treat us wives like a piece of meat that they are just really going to "give it to" and then leave.
The good single male who can connect with a couple or couples will no doubtedly get his fantasies fulfilled as much as the couple will and maybe in the end have a great set of friends that he can be himself with. (i.e. the sexual side) That is what interested us to the lifestyle - to have likeminded friends that we could do things with in and out of the bedroom.
Welcome to the board and to the lifestyle. We look forward to hearing from you more so don't be afraid to jump in on threads or ask questions. Learn from the good singles we have here as well as the good couples (because you deserve the same respect) and I think you'll do well.
Mrs Spoomonkey