Hello Orion78,
That
Was a great 1st post!
We can't answer your question about how come
Single Males don't seem to be as accepted a part of the lifestyle as any other is. We just simply haven't ever looked for you yet. We have been couples oriented. We have met single males at dances and all of the ones we met were just fine gentlemen. The dance organizers basically hand selected the single males who would be let in. (Quota basis?) They just weren't what we were looking for at the time.
You certainly can't just expect couples to fall all over themselves about you (single males). There seems to be as many single males as couples out there and since a lot of couples look for other combinations, you may feel you're getting left with the short end. Like has been mentioned, make a good name for yourself and everything should work out well.
And thanks for the remark about our "freeness"...it is a wonderful thing to be accepted for it and not shunned because of it.
Male D