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Orion78 · 12-23-2005, 02:57 AM

First, let me say that I am so overwhelmed by the experiences, candor and freeness that most of you seem to have to express your inner desires and thoughts and then have the courage to meet one another and carry out your fantasies! Actually, it's altogether incredible to me! I've spent quite a bit of time reading experiences here on this forum and am so impressed with everything about it, especially the common respect that seems to flourish here above all else. It's refreshing and quite frankly, very freeing to me! I've always been very straight-laced on the outside but quite the opposite on the inside, but always felt somewhat embarassed or afraid of being judged if my real thoughts and fantasies were every discovered. In any event, I feel fortunate to have found this community and I hope that though I am a single male, I will be accepted as a part of your community. The reason I say that is because I have read quite a few threads on this forum that seem to discourage single males or look down upon them. So my questions to you all are the following:

1. Why does it appear that single males are not really encouraged to be a part of this community?

2. Is it possible for single males to be a part of this great community? If so, how do you recommend I go about establishing myself?

Please forgive my ignorance and I apologize in advance if my observations are incorrect. I am totally new to this forum and community and lifestyle and would just like more insight on it, in hopes that I can somehow be a part.

Thanks.

12-23-2005, 02:57 AM	#1 (permalink)
Orion78 Registered Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 4 Location: New York Status: Single Male	Observations and questions of a NEWBIE to all of this... First, let me say that I am so overwhelmed by the experiences, candor and freeness that most of you seem to have to express your inner desires and thoughts and then have the courage to meet one another and carry out your fantasies! Actually, it's altogether incredible to me! I've spent quite a bit of time reading experiences here on this forum and am so impressed with everything about it, especially the common respect that seems to flourish here above all else. It's refreshing and quite frankly, very freeing to me! I've always been very straight-laced on the outside but quite the opposite on the inside, but always felt somewhat embarassed or afraid of being judged if my real thoughts and fantasies were every discovered. In any event, I feel fortunate to have found this community and I hope that though I am a single male, I will be accepted as a part of your community. The reason I say that is because I have read quite a few threads on this forum that seem to discourage single males or look down upon them. So my questions to you all are the following: 1. Why does it appear that single males are not really encouraged to be a part of this community? 2. Is it possible for single males to be a part of this great community? If so, how do you recommend I go about establishing myself? Please forgive my ignorance and I apologize in advance if my observations are incorrect. I am totally new to this forum and community and lifestyle and would just like more insight on it, in hopes that I can somehow be a part. Thanks.