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txduo2000 · 12-22-2005, 02:35 PM

Personally, I think you should, for now, drop the idea of a threesome, and tell your boyfriend that you don't want to verbally fantasize with him anymore about it.

It sounds to me like he is all for it, in the heat of the moment, but then when the arousal is gone in the light of day, he feels threatened by the actuality. I don't know if he is purposely toying with you, or if it is that he finds complexity in his own feelings from one time to another. Perhaps he may be also reading into you having the crush on the roommate and he feels threatened by what could happen if you continue to pursue threesomes with this guy. Guys, especially young guys, don't always know that women are inherently more apt to attach emotions to sex, but I think they sense it subconsciously. This might be happening with your guy.

For the time being, I think you two need to improve your communications and your relationship before continuing with any swing activity.

12-22-2005, 02:35 PM	#23 (permalink)
txduo2000 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2005 Posts: 662 Location: Dallas TX Area Status: Couple	Re: Threesome Troubles Personally, I think you should, for now, drop the idea of a threesome, and tell your boyfriend that you don't want to verbally fantasize with him anymore about it. It sounds to me like he is all for it, in the heat of the moment, but then when the arousal is gone in the light of day, he feels threatened by the actuality. I don't know if he is purposely toying with you, or if it is that he finds complexity in his own feelings from one time to another. Perhaps he may be also reading into you having the crush on the roommate and he feels threatened by what could happen if you continue to pursue threesomes with this guy. Guys, especially young guys, don't always know that women are inherently more apt to attach emotions to sex, but I think they sense it subconsciously. This might be happening with your guy. For the time being, I think you two need to improve your communications and your relationship before continuing with any swing activity. __________________ Life is not measured by how many breaths you take, but by the moments that take your breath away.