The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Wife sending me mixed messages - I don't understand how women are programmed

mrapplication · 12-20-2005, 09:56 PM

OK, it's been a long while since I have posted anything. Couple years ago we discussed swinging, but that's how far it got. I asked for advice on this forumn page and most women said I need to back off and let it progress on her terms and I agreed. Well it's been lets say 6 months and I haven't even brought up the subject. By the way, before I forget to say, we have been to lifestyle resort twice and love it. Even being at a resort with swingers nothing happened with other couples.

Well we seen Oraph's show on the lifestyle and I brought the subject up again and again she said not interested even if we found the perfect couple. OK, I can live with her decision and not upset at all about her decision. Keep this in mind this was Friday.

Well Saturday she sees a guy who she thinks is the hottest thing ever and makes many comments how good looking he is. She cannot take her eyes off of him. Important fact, he is 17 and my wife is 40. She calls him her "Pool Boy", because he is a lifeguard. Well while we were out she made the comment that she wanted to walk by him many times and then turned to me and said "I would fuck him once he turns 18 and I would let you watch. I smiled and didn't say anything else, thinking do not pressure her. Let her go at her own pace.

Why is she giving me two different impressions? How do I handle this? What's my next move?

12-20-2005, 09:56 PM	#1 (permalink)
mrapplication Registered Join Date: Aug 2004 Posts: 7 Location: Midwest	Wife sending me mixed messages - I don't understand how women are programmed OK, it's been a long while since I have posted anything. Couple years ago we discussed swinging, but that's how far it got. I asked for advice on this forumn page and most women said I need to back off and let it progress on her terms and I agreed. Well it's been lets say 6 months and I haven't even brought up the subject. By the way, before I forget to say, we have been to lifestyle resort twice and love it. Even being at a resort with swingers nothing happened with other couples. Well we seen Oraph's show on the lifestyle and I brought the subject up again and again she said not interested even if we found the perfect couple. OK, I can live with her decision and not upset at all about her decision. Keep this in mind this was Friday. Well Saturday she sees a guy who she thinks is the hottest thing ever and makes many comments how good looking he is. She cannot take her eyes off of him. Important fact, he is 17 and my wife is 40. She calls him her "Pool Boy", because he is a lifeguard. Well while we were out she made the comment that she wanted to walk by him many times and then turned to me and said "I would fuck him once he turns 18 and I would let you watch. I smiled and didn't say anything else, thinking do not pressure her. Let her go at her own pace. Why is she giving me two different impressions? How do I handle this? What's my next move?