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Originally Posted by intuition897 Yay! This is my 1000th post! 
I still inwardly cringe at the term "swinger" myself. Draws up nasty images of dinner-plate sized gold medallions, leopard-print purple spandex encasing bodies that are not designed to wear it, and enough body hair to keep a sasquatch warm. It just ain't the truth, but it's ingrained there. If she's thinking Austin Powers, don't use the word swinger. |
Congrats Intuition!! We are not worthy!!!
There is a gentleman high level administrator in my son's school district who is rumored to be in the lifestyle.
HE fits that Ron "the hedgehog" Jeremy look that most of the people I know, including myself, envisioned as the type of person being in this lifestyle.
This is such a shame, because most of the people we have met do not look or act anything like this, and do not act any different than anyone else you might see on the street.
My ex and I had a couple that we would hang out every weekend for a couple of years. Very flirty, etc. Naked in the hot tub was normal. Hand jobs from the ladies were normal(never to completion though). Never once did we even so much as have sex with our spouses in the same room, or even at their house. An inquiry was made as to whether or not they would "do such a thing" and they very gently told us that they would never "do such a thing". But, the relationship continued on like that for a couple more years, until my ex and I split.
So, goes to show, ya never can tell, even when all the signs are there.