 Re: New development, am I overreacting?
Yes I think you are overeacting...but you wife's feelings are way more important than this young ladies.
You both have an opportunity to be dignified educators here. What needs to happen is have more, not less, talks with her in front of your wife. She needs to learn what swinging is all about now, not later after lots of damage could've been done by being mis-informed about how things work in the lifestyle.
Kinda curious as to why you and your wife brought it up at all if your wife's not interested.
One more thing, it would be easier to talk about things if she wasn't your nanny, but I'd hate to let her go on just what has happened so far. Is she smart? What are her ambitions in life? She can learn how thoughtful swingers are or she will learn how she should never ever trust herself with others again. Not saying she's that frail, but you have to make the call.
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