The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Nanny approached us for sex but wants husband more than wife

kittycat11 · 12-19-2005, 01:15 PM

If your state is a 'work at will' state then I wouldn't worry about asking her to move on. Help her find a job and get her out of the house. You crossed lines and those lines can't be erased. She is going to be in your house all the time: too close to home for your wife I guarantee you. Talk to your wife and agree that it's time for a new nanny. If you didn't actually have sex with her then she has no case against you anyway. You are not obligated to keep help if it's no longer needed or wanted.

12-19-2005, 01:15 PM	#11 (permalink)
kittycat11 Here to Stay Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 35 Location: MA	Re: New development, am I overreacting? If your state is a 'work at will' state then I wouldn't worry about asking her to move on. Help her find a job and get her out of the house. You crossed lines and those lines can't be erased. She is going to be in your house all the time: too close to home for your wife I guarantee you. Talk to your wife and agree that it's time for a new nanny. If you didn't actually have sex with her then she has no case against you anyway. You are not obligated to keep help if it's no longer needed or wanted.