[Coupleinidaho]

Ack, I don't think I made myself completely clear in my last post. Let me clarify: My wife and I only brought up the subject, in a *very* casual way. We never went anywhere with it, ie., never invited or even hinted at inviting B into our sex lives. When B stated she was bi-curious and turned on by the idea of being with a couple, that was at the tail end of the conversation. A few more minutes out there talking about sex in general and it was done.

What did frighten me (nearly as much as some of your replies about getting an attorney and the like), was that the morning after she more or less invited herself into our bedroom, when there was no invitation. All the "talk" about inviting her was just between my wife and myself, it never was brought up with her as a reality. I told B that my wife and I had a few drinks, and normally would have never even casually talked about our fantasies. She said she understood, and that the wine had an effect on her also, but that if it ever became a possibility, those were her feelings on it. (That she was more interested in having sex with me than with my wife)

This woman has been with us for over two years, and in that time has almost become a part of the family, and the kids love her. Think Alice from the Brady Bunch, but younger and much better looking. I'm going to talk with my wife about all this and see where we can go from here. I'm hoping that this issue dies a quick death with all of us concerned.

Thanks for all the advice, hope some of it is never required.