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Originally Posted by Unregistered Some advice please. Since meeting 7 years ago, my wife has gone from slim to very fat, gaining about 100 pounds+. I love her but am not as physically attracted to her with this weight. However, I know there are guys out there who are into heavier women. What are the chances of finding a couple where the woman is slim but the guy is into fat chick? |
It sounds to me like you are considering swinging so you can get with a skinny chick since your wife is no longer one. THE WRONG REASON TO BE DOING THIS. You are a trainwreck waiting to happen.
There is either a physiological or pyschological condition that has promoted your wife's weight gain. She needs to discover what this is if she is to get back to a weight that a doctor feels is healthy for her.
As txdou and tracy said, some people have to work at maintaining weight in either direction, and sometimes issues such as depression can play a huge part in weight gain (or extreme loss). Mrs. WS and I are opposites that way. She always teases she looks at food and gains 5 lbs. and I don't eat for a few hours and I lose 5 lbs. You can see in our families that it is by a large part physiological; her mom is stalkier and mine was uber-skinny.
I also find it interesting the hypocrisy that many guys bitching about "fat chicks" are technically obese themselves according the body mass index. Obviously weight is another one way street in Gendertown.
Mr. WS