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**Alura** · 12-17-2005, 08:54 PM

I'm sorry about your week, Tempest, and hope it gets a lot better really quickly!

It seems to me you have put more of yourself into this relationship. Perhaps your friend has been "spreading her wings" trying to regain some control of her sexuality. Perhaps not, but in any case I think you should heed advice given above and ease off on the expectations a bit.

Don't tell her you want out; I don't believe you do. Just tell her how you feel and let her fly for awhile. Y'all are young and have time to work out the problems.

Good luck, and please keep us informed.

Mr. Alura

12-17-2005, 08:54 PM	#12 (permalink)
Alura Just a hick Okie Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 8,144 Location: Tulsa, Oklahoma Status: Widower	Re: Rules & The Elusive Unicorn I'm sorry about your week, Tempest, and hope it gets a lot better really quickly! It seems to me you have put more of yourself into this relationship. Perhaps your friend has been "spreading her wings" trying to regain some control of her sexuality. Perhaps not, but in any case I think you should heed advice given above and ease off on the expectations a bit. Don't tell her you want out; I don't believe you do. Just tell her how you feel and let her fly for awhile. Y'all are young and have time to work out the problems. Good luck, and please keep us informed. Mr. Alura
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