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Originally Posted by C & J Ohio Couples cum in every permutation and combination. There are lots of couples out there with fat husbands and slim wives, and vice versa. As long as your wife is attracted to men as heavy as she is, you should have no problem finding playmates. As for the comment about possibly gaining weight because of trouble in the marriage, that is just an excuse. Lots of people have all sorts of problems, without gaining any weight. Problems don't cause weight gain -- eating too much does. "Fat chick" is not a nice way to describe your wife, but most other terms are no better, and some far worse. |
Actually, it's not an excuse. It has been scientifically proven that there is a gene related to obesity and weight gain. Meaning that some folks have this gene, and therefore a greater propensity for gaining weight. Some do not have this gene, and those are the folks that you see who are "naturally thin" ... the ones who can eat anything they want, whenever they want, and as much as they want and not gain weight.
I am not an obese woman, though I do have a propensity for gaining weight easier and faster, so I have to watch it all the time. It is a genetic thing.
But I do agree with the advice given by tracy ... just because the OP doesn't want to have sex with his wife anymore, isn't cause enough for him to go out seeking a man who will. That is ridiculous.
Work on your marriage, be honest about what bothers you, communicate openly and get to know each all over again before you even entertain the idea of bringing others to your life and bedroom.