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carolinaskye · 12-16-2005, 10:55 AM

reading the above posts really made me feel better,,,,I too have that fear of being looked down on.....I can relate both to the single women and men in fact. I see us singles challenged more in possibly "dating" another single that is both compatible towards any kind of deeper relationship and yet still open to the swinging lifestyle. I am still wondering how would you tell a potential Mr. Right that although he's the greatest....you are really interested in playing together..WOW..thats a pretty tall order new into a relationship...trying to set ground rules..maintain respect for one another..and keep out jealousy as well I'd truly love to hear from any couples who managed to become a couple while exploring swinging..if thats even possibe. And as I am still very new to this idea every post here is eye opening...I hope to some of the wives here I can at least give one single ladies outlook on swinging with a couple..I would HOPE..and certainly at least for me feel, that your commitment and relationship IS the turn on for the other lady...I find it appalling to think there are those out there who are gonna want to come between the two of you rather than admire you and feel honored to play amidst that love for each other..NOT play against it. I truly am learning form these threads o put into consideration a lot more while I am deciding..is this for me? this site is awesome...thanks to all those who post for their honesty and openess.

12-16-2005, 10:55 AM	#15 (permalink)
carolinaskye Active Member Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 21 Location: mississippi Status: single female Swing Lifestyle Name:carolinaskye	Re: single women looked down upon? reading the above posts really made me feel better,,,,I too have that fear of being looked down on.....I can relate both to the single women and men in fact. I see us singles challenged more in possibly "dating" another single that is both compatible towards any kind of deeper relationship and yet still open to the swinging lifestyle. I am still wondering how would you tell a potential Mr. Right that although he's the greatest....you are really interested in playing together..WOW..thats a pretty tall order new into a relationship...trying to set ground rules..maintain respect for one another..and keep out jealousy as well I'd truly love to hear from any couples who managed to become a couple while exploring swinging..if thats even possibe. And as I am still very new to this idea every post here is eye opening...I hope to some of the wives here I can at least give one single ladies outlook on swinging with a couple..I would HOPE..and certainly at least for me feel, that your commitment and relationship IS the turn on for the other lady...I find it appalling to think there are those out there who are gonna want to come between the two of you rather than admire you and feel honored to play amidst that love for each other..NOT play against it. I truly am learning form these threads o put into consideration a lot more while I am deciding..is this for me? this site is awesome...thanks to all those who post for their honesty and openess.