[Dynamar]

I'm a single female.

I guess I'm still confused as to the nature of the entire situation. Are you a poly-triad, or not? From what's already been written, I'm thinking that perhaps y'all are not, but you want to be. If that's the case, then I (were I in the single female position) would run... run like the wind... away from this situation!

Nobody decides who I see but me, and likewise nobody dictates "who knows what" about who I see and what I do. I'm just kinda weirded out by the scenario, even if you were friends to begin with.